Some time ago, I was impressed by Brené Brown at TEDxHouston. Brené’s 20 minute video introduced me to an idea that inspiring people are Whole Hearted ! These people have the courage to be imperfect, and be who they are. Brené pointed out that Whole Hearted people seem to live with a sense of worthiness. They also show a sense of love and belonging. For Whole Hearted people seem to have a willingness to overcome vulnerability in a society where criticism and self-criticism is rife. In Brené’s research, she saw the vulnerability as having shame and fear at the core of people’s experience. Thus, if we overcome vulnerability, we can have a willingness to say “I love you” first!